curious straight males only want one thing and it ain’t no love story
inside jamari fox
I have dated males,
who were curious,
but they were never interested in me romantically.
i’m here to tell you curious males are not what they’re cracked up to be.
i have this thing where i can attract males to me like bees to honey.
it might be my style,
height,
bomb personality,
or the gayness they could see in me.
curious straight males were like hawks because i wasn’t like the others.
it wasn’t a compliment because they ended up treating me like the others.
they wanted to fuck but i was giving them “the boyfriend” experience.
I’m glad it never happened with any of them tbh.
i was reading this thread on reddit called:
“Straight men who have tried gay sex: what did you like and didn’t like about it?”
…and many of the comments gave me a couple a-ha moments.
this one comment especially…
^that can be the reality for some of the curious.
don’t get me wrong because there are exceptions to the rules.
you can tell when a male is in it for the long haul tho.
this is where my a-ha moment came in:
A-Ha Moment 1
the moment you show interest back is when he pulls away.
that is a control tactic.
he wants to get your hopes up only to not cum through.
he wants to control the narrative because he is insecure af.
YOU COULD BE WAITING FOR YEARS FOR HIM TO GET IT TOGETHER.
God forbid that you end up waiting for years and he is trash.
your fantasy of him is usually better than the reality of him.
A-Ha Moment 2
usually,
it’s just “cumming” from a place of sex.
males are sexual creatures.
he led you down a path where you thought it was more.
i’m here to font that he just playing games with his unsure head ass.
he doesn’t want to experiment because you are the noah to his wade.
HE JUST WANTS TO FUCK TO SEE IF HE LIKES IT.
but,
like the reddit comment above,
what if he doesn’t have sex with you after you waited so long?
or,
what if he can’t stay hard or “comes to senses” once inside you?
you will feel really shitty (no pun intended) and used.
that isn’t a good feeling.
i think it’s best to avoid the freshly curious ones.
even the ones that “did it once but might do it again“.
they are unreliable af.
Stick with bi or gay males who:
- Know their way around and inside other males
– They liked their experiences with the same-sex
– Can stay hard because they are 110% into it
anything else is a dub and a waste of time.
you will regret it when they cut you off for a vixen.
Stop looking and fantasizing about the potential.
i wish i would have learned that lesson early on.
it would have saved me a ton of heartache.
read the entire thread: here
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