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the forests are suddenly talking about those who are bisexual.
like,
“bisexual bisexual” and not the dl kind.
well i saw a tweet that has been trending on my tl today.
apparently,
it’s homo and biphobic if vixens choose not to date a bi male…
Black women…its homophobic AND biphobic to not date a man just because he’s bisexual.
Follow me for a second. pic.twitter.com/m7PD4CaYqk— Optimus Fine (@sunnydaejones) February 25, 2020
“He shoulda told me”
If hes not a virgin, its assumed that he’s been with other people.
Would you be making this much noise if he told you he’d been with other girls before you?
Why does he need to SPECIFICALLY tell you he’s been with men before you?— Optimus Fine (@sunnydaejones) February 25, 2020
“He shoulda told me now that we’re serious.”
Why? He’s with you. And if hes with a man AFTER you that’s not your concern. So whaaaaaaaat exactly do you gain from knowing that?— Optimus Fine (@sunnydaejones) February 25, 2020
before i start…
We have to stop applying the term “phobic” to every damn thing
in the dictionary:
-
having or involving an extreme or irrational fear of or aversion to something.
it’s not a fear; it’s a preference.
realistically…
Some vixens aren’t comfortable with their wolf being with/has been with the same sex.
it’s like in that episode of “insecure” with molly.
like most,
she dumped really good wolf because he was with another male before.
ironically,
she went crawling back when she realized the mistake she made.
got some dick a couple times too.
there are some who are very tolerant,
but others just aren’t.
on the flip side,
some gays don’t like to know their males have been with a vixen.
there is the worry he’ll pack his bags back to the world of vagina.
all of this is understandable.
personally,
it all boils down to who is comfortable and who isn’t.
most vixens will say this ain’t with it now,
but could look past it if they meet someone of their dreams.
others will legit hit you with:
…and run for the hills.
it doesn’t have anything to do with being “phobic” at all.
it’s simply someone’s preference and it should be respected.
i could be wrong tho,
but we gotta stop attaching “phobic” to all issues.
we can’t force or shame people to be okay with everything.
it’s homophobic and biphobic if a woman doesn’t want to date a bisexual male jamari fox