someone remind antoine fuqua he’s married to lela rochon. thanks.

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lela rochon and antoine fuqua.
happier times?
i’ve come to realize something over the years.

SOME MALES SIMPLY AIN’T SHIT

straight ones.
gays ones.
“maybe gay” ones.
there is a male you want so bad,
but at this very moment,
he’s probably fuckin’ up someone’s life heavy.
it’s not even about being bitter either.
it’s the harsh reality of life.
being single,
childless,
and just keeping a rotation tends to be way better.
if getting in a successful relationship was easy,
we’d all have rings and barefoot/pregnant surrogates right now.
lela has been with antoine for 20+ years.
remind antoine because he was allegedly busted over in italy with…

…nicole murphy,
the ex of eddie murphy and michael strahan.
as soon as the pictures broke,
lela shut down her entire instagram.
first clue.
there were always whispers that antoine allegedly cheats on lela tho.
i always wonder if this was “stress weight” lela picked up over the years:

has she even acted since she married him?
i know she had a gang of his cubs,
but it makes no sense.

“robin” was always my favorite in “waiting to exhale” too.

as foxholers,
we don’t deal with the same drama as the straights.
well,
wait…
now that gays want to get married,
we have opened the door to messy divorces.
it’s not a shock that some males can have you out here looking crazy.
it might be a different kind of crazy,
but it’s all the same shit going into a different toilet.

i know a fox who finally left his jackal after years of abuse.
the jackal was fine af until he got hooked on the alcohol and coke.
sex was amazing and he thought he could change him.
wrong.
after all those wasted years of being cheated on,
and surprise cubs,
was for nothing.
i’ll be damned.

just because we like the same sex,
that doesn’t mean we aren’t immune to getting our lives fucked up.
foxhole…

Be careful with who you give your heart to

folks like to claim it’s the “fine ones” who are the worst.
yeah,
that may be true,
but don’t sleep on the “average” and “ugly” ones.
the ones you “gave a chance to“.

they tend to be the worst of them all.