inside jamari fox inside jamari fox - taking you real deep
the following is not a dirty word.
it’s not something to be shunned either.
you don’t have to hide.
its perfectly natural and i understand it.
now.
Asexual
some people,
including gay males,
have no desire to have sex with anyone.
i learned something interesting this week at work…
Being asexual can mean you have romantic feelings for someone,
but you have no desire to engage in anything sexual with them
.
one of my co workers is in an open relationship with his husband.
they have been together for many years.
recently,
they moved in with each other.
he told me that he went on a date with another male.
i figured he was cheating,
but he reassured me that his husband knew.
Shocked TF outta me
his husband is “asexual” and they have an agreement.
he’s allowed to sleep with others,
but he can’t date anyone else.
again:
Shocked TF outta me
i always thought being “asexual” meant having no interest in sex,
if not anyone at all.
i love when my mind gets blown
foxhole:
there is nothing wrong with being asexual.
as gay males,
the life can be nothing but one big ass sexual conquest.
there are asexual males,
ones who are probably lurking within the foxhole,
who seriously aren’t about that life.
hell,
i use to think i was asexual too.
i questioned why i wasn’t out there fuckin’ a wolf a week.
folks make you feel like you’re “different” if you aren’t like them.
after my “hiv scare” a few years back,
it sat my ass completely down.
it made me really insecure.
i’m celibate and cautious about who i let into my foxhole now.
there’s a difference between the two i had to realize.
i will admit,
i’ve been getting horny af and open for some new dick.
i started to wonder tho…
How many folks we know that are actually asexual?
some of the attentionistos we fantasize could be not into sex at all.
mind blown.
lowkey: i bet there are even more layers to being asexual.
i have questions.
you want the male, but you don’t want the sex that comes with it jamari fox