inside jamari fox inside jamari fox - taking you real deep
what is the “right decision” to you?
yes,
you,
foxholer.
like,
do you go with:
a) the way you feel?
b) the way you think it will turn out?
i got to wondering about how folks make decisions…
the pretty vixen and i were having a really deep conversation today.
she decided to call me this morning while she was on break.
during our conversation,
she said:
“stupid people just DO it.
smart people THINK about the outcome before they do it,
which leads them to not doing it at all.
there are a ton of stupid successful people.
there also are a ton of smart people who aren’t.
they always have to plan the what if and how comes,
or waiting for the right moment,
and end up doing nothing at all with their smarts.”
i found that to be incredibly deep and life altering.
have you noticed…
your boss is kinda stupid?
most celebs are kinda stupid?
a majority of attentionistos/nistas are really stupid?
she used draya as an example.
she was an ex stripper who has a successful bikini line now.
she quoted that draya said didn’t know anything about making clothes.
she got 12,000 to start it and just did it.
she has made some pretty dumb decisions in her past,
but look at her now.
in my life,
i like to think i’m a stupid,
but a very smart fox.
with little things,
i take a stupid approach and it ends up working out.
there are times i’ve bought something expensive,
off a whim,
and still was good for rent/food/survival.
for bigger things,
i tend to try and plan it out so it would be perfect.
There is no such thing as the “right” decision
i’m interested in being a little more stupid.
*my mind went trying to figure out how to be more stupid.
smh.
halp!
once i realized that i’m truly alone with no help,
or no parents to lean on,
i got too “smart” for my own good.
2019 is the year to be more stupid and see what happens.
low-key: don’t get this confused with not having any common sense.
some things are just a no go,
but how do you know if it is or not?