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i’ve grown to become cautious with other males.
dating,
friendship,
and family.
i’m always waiting for the other shoe to drop.
i’ve woken up and realized most of them just ain’t ever gonna be shit.
there is a tweet that is creating a lot of conversation today.
this is it…
…and it’s 110% facts.
most of us are fuckin stupid.
we will drop the one who held us down,
settle heavy with some idiot we legit just met,
and then be out here singing “song cry” by jay.
like,
gtfo with that shit.
i’ve seen it happen a million times to so many vixens..
the one that held them down gets dragged through the mud,
while some random gets a ring and a cub(s).
after they realize that random was NOT the one,
then they want to cheat on the random and play the victim.
they now realize “the one” has bounced,
so they go through many other randoms to find a replica.
dropping a ton of seeds along the way.
gay males have this issue,
but in different ways.
either:
a) met the one but cheating all day and night
b) met the one(s) but don’t want to settle down
c) what is “the one”?
our version of settling is waking up one day and realizing we’re alone.
the one(s) have moved on,
most of our friends/fuck buddies have died of hiv,
or we never could be trusted to have friends/”the one” in the first place.
that realization can be a tough blow.
straight males rule the dating game.
they pick who they’re gonna date/marry.
in this life i live,
no one truly rules anything.
everyone is lost out here.
i can’t wake up and say:
“I’m gonna call up ________ because we are mutual interested in a relationship.
we both want to make it work,
grow,
and become a power couple on these hoes.”
nope.
i can call up that same _______ for some no strings dick tho.
now that’s easy!
like vixens,
i think we need to get “the fantasy” out of our heads.
what the perfect boyfriend/husband would be like.
he doesn’t exist.
that is the major key in dating males.
you aren’t here to:
cater to some male like a maid or a butler
raise him like his mama or daddy should have
fuck and suck him on command like a on call hoe
give him free advice like you’re a life coach
you can do all that and still be outta there.
listen after being treated like shit,
or replaced for “someone better”,
i’ve gotten a lot colder in 2018.
i won’t let anyone take my kindness and empathy,
but i don’t see wolves as i once saw them.
most of them i see as sex toys,
but they are all sketchy until proven otherwise.
that fairy tale of meeting “the perfect wolf” doesn’t exist.
MALES CAN BE STRAIGHT GRIMEY OUT HERE
i’m actually the GREAT catch.
no one is like me or will do the things i do.
belee dat.
i’m not wasting myself on some emotional bum pineapple.
been there; done that.
a few times too many.
i ain’t chasing or looking too hard either.
like that tweet said,
your match will find you.
he might even drop someone else because you came along at the right time.
your job is to love yourself and build your perfect life.
have fun in between that.
everything should because YOU want to do it.
no one else should be what makes you happy.
you’ll always be disappointed.
i ain’t waiting around because i may not ever find anyone.
that’s the reality of life so i might as well make myself happy.
no more weak ass males allowed.
lowkey: foxhole,
check out the conversation in the tweet.
i was mind blown…
“Most men don’t marry the woman they love(d) the most. They marry the woman that is around when they are ready to marry”.
I saw this shared on Instagram and wanted some male opinions on this. Is this statement completely false or does it hold some truth?
— TONI (@t0nit0ne) April 1, 2018
Straight Males Ain’t Settling Until They Ready (Gay Males Probably Never) Jamari Fox